Well, it’s a bit late but
I definitely wanted to do this.
This is for my dad.
Once, someone asked him
how old his children were. Josh and I were 16 and 19 at the time, but my father
responded with “Uhhh… they’re 11 and 14”. I’m pretty confident that if you
asked him today, he’d still give you answer that sets us back about five years.
He’s got a terrible
memory. Like really really terrible. He can’t remember my friends’ names to
save his life, he can’t remember how old his own children are, but he always
remembers the important things.
Our favorite stadium: Fenway Park |
- On Friday nights (after cheering at the football game), I would be at home shining my boots, ironing my uniform, and studying codes in preparation for my CHP Explorer meeting the next morning. As I would whine, cry, and complain about how tired I was, he would silently grab my boots and start shining them. He would tell me to get some rest. I grumbled about how it wasn’t fair, I should be out at the football-cheer party too! All the while, my father silently shined my boots until they were mirrors.
- He missed at least 4 Superbowls to sit through cheer competitions, braving the thundering music, screaming teenage girls, and over-priced stadium food just to wear a red “Tesoro” shirt and cheer me on. Even after a 24 hour shift, if he could be there, he WAS.
- He’s used every lopsided, misshapen, uneven ceramic creation I’ve ever made for him
- When my Mom was going through dialysis and had to have her diet cut to a ridiculous amount of calories + disgusting mush, he put the whole house on the same diet so my Mom wouldn’t feel left out.
Gave him the stole- couldn't have done it without him |
To the best dad in the world: Happy [belated] Father's Day. I love you.
Christmas 2009: We went skydiving over the North Shore of Oahu together |
I love this post! It's really sweet.
ReplyDeleteWhat an absolutely loving tribute to your father! Well-said, and so heartfelt! Aunt Rei
ReplyDeleteHey Jax,
ReplyDeleteThat was beautiful just like you. Always loved your writing....off to work ;-)